I was stalking over somebody’s IG account and found that she was just got married. Then I saw some of her friends comment on her photos: “eh ini beneran lo? Cantik banget. Ini pasti foto orang ya?” “Cantik, tapi kok masih gemuk? Diet dong, kan mau nikah.” “Ini udah H minus sekian (nikah) kok masih gemuk?”
And other kind of comments yang intinya lo-cantik-tapi-ada-aja-kurangnya.

I mean, come on people. Apa susahnya siy giving sincere compliments? Apa susahnya bilang orang lain cantik/ganteng titik nggak pakai tapi? Apa susahnya lihat orang lain senang? Ketika hidup kita lagi senang, we expect people to respect our happiness too, don’t we? Why don’t we do the same upon others’ happiness?

Just because you’re at a low point in your life and your friends are at their high, doesn’t mean you are eligible to drag them to low point by giving negative comments. Here’s another clue: imagine if you’re at a high point and somebody tries to drag you down, would you be happy with their action?

View on Path


Couple days ago I saw on Ify Alyssa’s instastory about Gojek scam, which she got a verification code from Gojek then a person rang her asking for the code. She gave it and after that her gopay balance got reduced.
This morning I was driving when suddenly a text from Gojek came, stated a verification code. Few seconds later unknown number rang me and asked about the code. Since I already knew this mode, I play stupid with the caller, told him I got no message. Si penipu ini lumayan gigih, dia bilang dia harus kirim barang lah, kalau nggak nanti ordernya di cancel padahal dia udah setengah jalan, jual derita ina ini itu and so on and so on. Btw, code itu cuma berlaku sekian menit, so if you happened to experience this scam, please enjoy talking as long as you can for the sake of ngerjain balik si penipu 😛
I ended the phone call by saying thank you for trying, and please stop doing so. Sebentar lagi lebaran dan dia masih aja nipu orang. Nggak takut besok pagi dijemput sama jibril? 😁 The guy said some harsh words that I didn’t care, I pressed end button, and continued driving like nothing happened.
And I’d like to say good job Gojek, so much for customer security 👏đŸģ☚ī¸

Thanks for reading this. Hava good Wednesday, good people 😊

View on Path

Life · Personal Thoughts

Brain VS Body VS Heart

I’m in the middle of serious life crisis and lately, I think a lot. My brain keep thinking and thinking and thinking until I have to be reaaallly tired so I can get to sleep. These past 2 days I’ve been caught a flu and took some medicine, it also helps me to sleep faster. But I know taking on medication is not good. What I need to do to help me sleep faster actually a settlement upon my crisis.

My friend Hira yesterday told me, “Kok lo malah nggak bisa tidur sih? ‘Kan ini lo yang mau, dia juga udah setuju? Udah tenang dong lo harusnya?” I told her selama palu belum diketok dan surat belum ditandatangani, saya belum bisa hidup dengan tenang. Otak ini akan terus berpikir, hati akan terus khawatir, dan efeknya adalah susah tidur itu.

Last night I went to sleep on 11-ish PM, only to be awaken by 12.30 AM for..I don’t know why. Tried to go back to sleep but I ended up scrolling over instagram to get my eyes tired and sleepy again. Duh, brain, what is wrong with you? Why can’t you just stop thinking and give commands to each of my organs so they keep me alive. No need to process on thoughts whatsoever.

I never thought that this ‘heart’ business would involve brain and body as well. I thought it’s okay to have this heart ruined as long as I still have my brain and body functioned normally. Turns out, brain, body, and heart comes in a package. You can’t expect the others functioned normally while the other is malfunction. And vice versa.

I have to find a resolution for my self before this internalization of sadness dragging me down. I just want to be functioned normally, again. Please brain, be cooperate and let my body get healthy. And you, heart, your job is to pump blood, not to be involved in emotional feelings.

Life · love

Marry Who?

Rima aku diingetin sama path pernah posting kayak giniii hahahahah 😆
Dulu kamu posting ‘Don’t marry rich. Be rich.’ Terus aku tambahin ‘Together.’

Kita pernah seambisius ini kaak. Perempuan ibukota banget yaa ✌đŸģ😆 – with Rima Gravianty

View on Path


Ed Sheeran – Divide Album (no, this is not an album review)

Spending today with listening to Ed Sheeran’s newest album while at work. Sheeran’s music has caught my ears since 2011 but I fully paid attention to his music when he released X (Multiply).
I’ll share some of his video later, you guys should watch it and please don’t let me fall in love with Sheeran alone.

And now I know the next concert I would like to pursue 😉

View on Path


Watching Cek Toko Sebelah

Basi? Iya, biarin. Gw udah spending hours ngeliat potongannya di youtube, yaudahlah jabanin aja nonton filmnya sekalian.
Bagian paling kena di film ini adalah ketika bapak dan anak sulungnya pelukan di makam si ibu.. aku paling nggak bisa liat bapak-anak cina pelukan sambil mewek.. đŸ˜ĸ

Makasi Arum yg udah nemenin. Makasi Tania yg udah rekomen dan nanya, “Mbak kok lo nggak balik? Katanya mo nonton Cek Tokopedia?”

Watching Cek Toko Sebelah

View on Path